How to Deal With Inconsistent Men

Have you been seeing a nice guy who is inconsistent? When he’s there for you, he feels like Mr. Right. But all too often, he’s not there for you. Because of this hot and cold treatment, you feel conflicted.

Should you confront him? Should you set clearer boundaries? Should you just forget about him? How do you know if you’re lowering your relationship standards too much?

Seeing a guy who gives you mixed signals can be extremely frustrating, especially if you’re invested in him. But rather than try to “make” him act differently, you’ll be better served by letting his actions speak for him. Let him make an effort to be worthy of you. Focus on yourself rather than obsessing about why he’s so flaky.

Stop banking on his potential and pay attention to how you feel. Are you always anxious? Do you ever feel secure knowing he’s going to follow up? If not, listen to this expert advice from dating coach Evan Marc Katz on how to deal with inconsistent men.