Why Have a Relationship If You Have to Censor Yourself?

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Why Have a Relationship If You Have to Censor Yourself?

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But he doesn’t know anything about her past relationships. He has little knowledge about her first husband, no clue about her former sexual partners, and only a partial picture of what led her to become the woman she is today.

To be fair, SHE doesn’t know anything about HIS previous relationships either. That’s their agreement – “we don’t talk about the past”- and, for 10 years, they’ve largely stuck to it.

I don’t get this at all.

As much as I respect everyone’s right to make her own choices – and I’m not so arrogant to think my marital dynamic is the only way to be happy – this level of secrecy within marriage would seem to create a weaker relationship.

DO YOU WANT TO FIX YOUR BROKEN MAN-PICKER?

Let’s take a step back to ask an unusual question: How do people get close?

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