On our last episode, Dr. Rick Hanson and I began our conversation on how to find a long-term relationship by discussing intentions, psychological skills, and self-marketing strategies that bring us closer to finding someone who brings out the best in us.
This week, we expand our conversation to explore what traits to look for in a potential partner and in your dynamic with them. We discuss life growth curves, how to manage early conflict, healthy approaches for dealing with rejection, and how to support those still navigating a difficult search.
2:45: Basic green and red flags to look for in a partner
8:50: Pursuer-distancer dynamic
9:45: Shared growth curves–relationship as a process, not a person
12:50: Riding the river of practical daily life
19:25: Someone who brings out the best parts of you
25:25: Different kinds of romantic relationships
28:55: Rejection and feeling wanted
30:45: Asymmetry and power dynamics
34:40: Agency within the pain of rejection
40:05: Recognizing self-worth
45:00: Managing early conflict
51:50: The struggle to find a prospective partner
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