3 Qualities Over 50’s Men Are Looking For In You! 

3 Qualities Over 50’s Men Are Looking For In You! 

By now, you’ve probably got an idea of what you’re looking for in the men you want to date.

Maybe he needs to be cute or lead an active lifestyle.

Or maybe the type of career he has is important to you.

Or you might want a man who has a strong connection with his family.

Now let’s turn it around.

Have you ever wondered about the qualities a man is looking for in you?

Let’s take a look at three of them that men have shared with me over the years.

Quality #1. . .  A woman who respects the man she’s with

I dated a man for 2 years who I knew from day one wasn’t right for me.

He absolutely loved and adored me.

Even my mother would say, his eyes lit up as he tried to make me happy.

I found I just couldn’t resist this man who looked at me like a Goddess.

Over the two and a half years we were together, the relationship had its sweet moments but overall we were never really a match.

The problem was, I just didn’t respect him or the decisions he’d made in his life.

So when he’d offer me advice, I’d totally disregard it.

When you don’t respect a man, he feels inadequate.

And no man wants to look less than in your eyes or feel like he’s not enough for you.

This tears a man up.

Alpha Males need your respect.

If you find you don’t respect the decisions he is making or how he is living his life, you want to move on because you both deserve more.

Quality #2. . . . A woman who understands action equals love

Nothing would make us happier than a man who could verbally express his feelings to us whether it’s in person or in a card or love note every day.

Women love words.

The thing is . . . Men don’t.

Men believe their actions show far more about what they feel about you than words ever will.

If you’re looking for him to tell you over and over again that he loves you, just watch what he does for you.

Men will do things like fix the leg on a wobbly table that’s been driving you nuts.

Or he’ll see the grass in your lawn is too long so he’ll come over and cut it for you.

Or he’ll show up with flowers that may or may not have a card as a way of saying…I love you and care about you.

Quality #3. . .  A man wants a woman he can make happy.

An emotionally healthy over 50’s man is all about pleasing you and making you happy.

Nothing makes him feel more content than seeing the smile on your face as a result of what he’s done for you.

Now what you want to understand is men will give generously to you of anything they want to give.

That means if you want him to go to the ballet and the ballet is a huge turn off for him, he will say no and no matter how much you demand, threaten or try to get him to do this with you, he isn’t going to go.

What would make him happiest in this situation is if you took a friend and let him stay home and watch sports on TV.

Yet . . . when you say, hey, let’s go to a movie, and this is an activity he enjoys, a lot of times he will give up his testosterone type of movie to see a chick flick because it will make you happy.

Men over 50 want relationships to be easy.

They are always open to suggestions and preferences you may have and they will do their best to make your wishes come true whenever they can.

I love teaching you about men.

Probably because I used to emasculate men like it was my job and had no clue I was even doing it!

I don’t want to see this happen to you because when you emasculate men, they disappear.

And I love helping you get a clear vision of the right man for you because I’ve found most women usually can’t see the man who is right for her even when he’s standing directly in front of her.

This was happening to my client, Leigh Ann. I gave her a few powerful tips about men and a Template to help her get a clear picture of her ideal man, and I was thrilled to hear this from her . . .

Hugs~

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