107 Intriguing Never Have I Ever Questions for Couples

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Are you looking for Never Have I Ever Questions for Couples? Relationship conversation starters and couples games like Never Have I Ever are fantastic ways to dig a little deeper and learn a little more about the person you’re with in a fun and interesting way.

Some couples Never Have I Ever questions are lighthearted and a little silly, while others can get deeper and of more significance. Skip around and choose the ones that feel right for where you and your partner are; you don’t want to ask a question you don’t really want to know the answer for!

Communication is important in relationships, but that doesn’t mean it always has to be serious. Have fun and communicate while playing relationship games like Never Have I Ever!

How Do You Play Never Have I Ever for Couples

Many people play Never Have I Ever as a drinking game, where the first person states “Never Have I Ever___” and if they actually have done the thing, they drink, and the other person must also drink if they have done that thing, but there are alternatives to this!

Make it a healthier version of couples Never Have I Ever by replacing the drinking with a little physical activity, like 5 sit-ups or push-ups. For example: you start by saying “Never have I ever used a partner’s toothbrush” and if you have used a partner’s toothbrush, you have to do 5 sit-ups. If your partner has also used a partner’s toothbrush, they must do 5 sit-ups too, but if they haven’t, they don’t.

If you want to make it a little risque, you could even turn your Never Have I Ever couples game into a strip version where instead of taking a drink, you must remove an article of clothing!

You could also play for points, where X amount of Never Have I Evers = an agreed-upon favor or deed of some sort, like a back massage or a special date somewhere. The best part about couples games like Never Have I Ever is that you get to modify it and personalize it to fit your relationship. 

However you tailor your Never Have I Ever game for couples, have fun getting to know each other on a deeper level. This is also a great addition to many of these date ideas here. Enjoy!

Never Have I Ever Questions for Couples

1. Never have I ever lied to my partner about where I was.
2. Never have I ever cheated on someone I was dating.
3. Never have I ever stolen from someone I was dating.
4. Never have I ever broken up with someone by text.
5. Never have I ever ghosted someone I was dating.
6. Never have I ever pretended to like something my date likes just to impress them.
7. Never have I ever been jealous of one of my partner’s friends.
8. Never have I ever snooped through my partner’s phone or computer.
9. Never have I ever gone on a date with someone just to get a free meal.
10. Never have I ever flirted with someone while in a committed relationship.
11. Never have I ever gotten into a physical fight with a partner.
12. Never have I ever been in a long-distance relationship.
13. Never have I ever had a crush on a teacher.
14. Never have I ever played strip poker with a significant other.
15. Never have I ever been in a threesome.
16. Never have I ever lied about my sexual history to a partner.
17. Never have I ever had a one-night stand.
18. Never have I ever had sex on a first date.
19. Never have I ever regretted breaking up with someone.
20. Never have I ever broken up with someone because of their appearance.
21. Never have I ever lied about being busy to avoid spending time with my partner.         
22. Never have I ever had feelings for someone else while in a relationship.
23. Never have I ever gone through my partner’s things without their knowledge.
24. Never have I ever used sex as a bargaining tool.
25. Never have I ever dated someone just because they were wealthy.
26. Never have I ever had an affair with a married person.
27. Never have I ever gone on a blind date.
28. Never have I ever broken up with someone because they were too clingy.
29. Never have I ever lied about my age to a partner.
30. Never have I ever pretended to be interested in a partner’s hobbies just to keep the peace.
31. Never have I ever lied to a partner about my feelings.
32. Never have I ever ignored a partner’s texts or calls and then lied about it.
33. Never have I ever been in a polyamorous relationship.
34. Never have I ever dated someone significantly older or younger than me.
35. Never have I ever had a crush on a friend’s partner.
36. Never have I ever joined the Mile High Club.
37. Never have I ever lied to my partner about my job or education.
38. Never have I ever broken up with someone because they didn’t have enough money.
39. Never have I ever lied to my partner about my past relationships.
40. Never have I ever pretended to be someone I’m not to impress a partner.
    

    

41. Never have I ever been cheated on.
42. Never have I ever gone on a date just to make a crush jealous.
43. Never have I ever lied to a partner about my intentions.
44. Never have I ever broken up with someone because of their political beliefs.
45. Never have I ever been on a dating app or website.
46. Never have I ever cheated on a partner emotionally.
47. Never have I ever lied to my partner about my feelings for someone else.
48. Never have I ever given a fake compliment to a partner.
49. Never have I ever lied about my income to a partner.
50. Never have I ever had a partner lie about their sexual history.
51. Never have I ever been in a serious relationship that lasted over a year.
52. Never have I ever sent a flirty text message to someone other than my partner.
53. Never have I ever lied to my partner about my family or upbringing.
54. Never have I ever snooped through my partner’s social media accounts without their permission.
55. Never have I ever used my partner’s toothbrush without telling them.
56. Never have I ever lied to my partner about my religious beliefs.
57. Never have I ever dated someone who my friends or family didn’t approve of.
58. Never have I ever been in a relationship where the other person didn’t speak the same language as me.
59. Never have I ever had a secret crush on someone while dating someone else.
60. Never have I ever written a love letter I regretted.
61. Never have I ever dated someone I didn’t really connect with just because I found them physically attractive.
62. Never have I ever flirted with someone to get what I want.
63. Never have I ever lied to my partner about my health or medical history.
64. Never have I ever lied to my partner about my sexual preferences or desires.
65. Never have I ever broken up with someone because they did or didn’t want children.  
66. Never have I ever pretended to be single when I was in a relationship.
67. Never have I ever ignored my partner’s feelings or needs for my own selfish reasons.
68. Never have I ever lied to my partner about my financial situation.
69. Never have I ever fallen in love at first sight.
70. Never have I ever lied to my partner about my plans for the future.
71. Never have I ever used a dating app while in a committed relationship.
72. Never have I ever kept a secret from my partner that I knew would hurt them if they found out.
73. Never have I ever been in a relationship where the other person didn’t get along with my friends or family.
74. Never have I ever gone on a date with someone close to an ex just to get revenge.
75. Never have I ever lied to my partner about my level of education.
76. Never have I ever gone on a date with someone who was already in a committed relationship.
77. Never have I ever lied or been lied to about my or my partner’s criminal past.
78. Never have I ever broken up with someone because they didn’t like the same music or movies as me.
79. Never have I ever lied to my partner about my nationality or ethnicity.
80. Never have I ever been in a relationship where the other person was significantly more or less physically active than me.
81. Never have I ever lied to my partner about my drinking habits.
82. Never have I ever broken up with someone because they were too intense or emotional.
    

    

83. Never have I ever lied to my partner about my career goals.
84. Never have I ever dated someone who was significantly more or less sexually experienced than me.
85. Never have I ever flirted to get out of a difficult conversation with a partner.
86. Never have I ever accidentally fallen asleep while being intimate with someone.
87. Never have I ever lied to my partner about my living situation.
88. Never have I ever broken up with someone because they didn’t share my hobbies or interests.
89. Never have I ever lied about my relationship status on social media.
90. Never have I ever dated someone who had different political beliefs than me.
91. Never have I ever lied to my partner about my dietary restrictions.
92. Never have I ever broken up with someone because they were too busy or not available enough.
93. Never have I ever gone skinny dipping on a date.
94. Never have I ever been in a serious long-distance relationship.
95. Never have I ever lied to my partner about my relationship with my ex.
96. Never have I ever stayed in a relationship longer than I should have because I was afraid of being alone.
97. Never have I ever dated someone who my family disapproved of.
98. Never have I ever lied to my significant other about my feelings towards their friends or family.
99. Never have I ever ghosted someone after a first date.
100. Never have I ever dated someone for their money or status.
101. Never have I ever lied to my partner about my true feelings towards something important to them.
102. Never have I ever gone on a date with someone just to get entry somewhere.
103. Never have I ever lied to my partner about my relationship history.
104. Never have I ever broken up with someone because of their appearance.
105. Never have I ever accidentally told a lie about something important to my partner that I never came clean about later.
106. Never have I ever broken up with a significant other to date someone close to them.
107. Never have I ever hired a private investigator to look into the person I was dating.

There are lots of great ways to deepen and strengthen a relationship, and playing games like Would You Rather and Never Have I Ever for couples is a fun way to dig a little deeper into your lives. It can also be a fun way to feel out the state of your relationship.

Have fun out there!

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Amy Hartle is the co-founder and owner of Two Drifters, where she blogs about romantic and couples travel, relationships, honeymoons, and more. With a Master’s in English and a BA in Musical Theatre, Amy loves to write quality content as well as to entertain, and she hopes to do a bit of both here on the blog! Amy lives in North Carolina with  her husband Nathan, and son Malcolm. When not working on their sites or traveling the world, the Hartles can be found cuddling, reading, and hanging out with their cats.