7 Reasons Why Men Tend to Hate Fellowship in Church Small Groups

We’re all busy. This hectic pace leaves little room for any additional commitments. This is especially true for men attempting to balance work, family, and other responsibilities. Adding a regular small group meeting to an already packed schedule can seem overwhelming. For many, Sunday is their only day “off”. Why would they want to fill that up with another activity—especially one that could be emotionally draining?

To make small groups more accessible for busy individuals, flexibility is key. Offering groups that meet at different times or even bi-weekly can help. The reality is that we do have time for what we value. Additionally, emphasizing the value these groups can bring to their lives — regarding spiritual growth, community support, and personal well-being — might encourage men to make time for what is ultimately an investment in their spiritual journey.

In conclusion, understanding and addressing these seven reasons can help evangelical communities create small group environments that are more appealing and supportive for men. By doing so, they can encourage greater participation and foster a deeper, more inclusive community experience.

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