125 Would You Rather Questions for Couples

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Would you rather… give up alcohol or caffeine forever? Receive a sexy text or a love note? It doesn’t matter how long you’ve been with your partner, or how well you think you know them. A good game of ‘Would You Rather?’ questions will definitely teach you something new about each other.

These funny, deep, sensual, and challenging questions will reveal interesting views on life and relationships. Use these questions as icebreakers when getting to know someone, or on a 20th anniversary date night.

No matter your relationship status, buckle in because the answers to these 125 ‘Would You Rather?’ questions for couples might take you by surprise.

Fun Would You Rather Questions for Couples

1. Would you rather be with a nerdy bookworm, or an adventurous athletic type?
2. Would you rather live in a small town or a massive city?
3. Would you rather have to wear your partner’s underwear or use their toothbrush?
4. Would you rather your significant other have constant bad breath, or constant body odor?
5. Would you rather faint while giving a work presentation or during your wedding?
6. Would you rather eat takeout every night of the week, or have to cook for your partner every night of the week?
7. Would you rather your partner have a tattoo of their ex, or be stuck with a tattoo of your ex?
8. Would you rather always be busy or always be bored?
9. Would you rather be with someone who snores loudly or chews with their mouth open?
10. Would you rather be really funny or really smart?
11. Would you rather have to wear pajamas for the rest of your life, or a suit jacket for the rest of your life?
12. Would you rather not brush your teeth for a month or not shower for a month?
13. Would you rather be extravagantly wealthy, or famous worldwide?
14. Would you rather be the funniest person in the room or the most attractive?
15. Would you rather your home be infested with cockroaches or rats?
16. Would you rather have no internet for a year or no texting for a year?
17. Would you rather explore a gorgeous mountain landscape, or an exciting, lively city?
18. Would you rather spend an entire day totally alone or surrounded by a crowd of people?
19. Would you rather have spinach stuck in your teeth or really need to fart on a first date?
20. Would you rather be stuck on a long road trip with your high school ex-boyfriend/girlfriend, or your high school ex-best friend?
21. Would you rather be trapped on a boat with your partner’s mother, or your partner’s ex?
22. Would you rather go on a blind date or a speed date?
23. Would you rather deal with your partner taking a sudden vow of silence, or a sudden vow of celibacy?
24. Would you rather be with someone who is totally covered in body hair or has no hair at all?
25. Would you rather be with someone who has a loud, piercing voice or a lisp when they talk?
26. Would you rather date a comedian or a classical pianist?
27. Would you rather kiss a person with bad BO or bad breath?
28. Would you rather your partner have only one arm, or only one leg?
29. Would you rather moon a stranger or flash your old boss?
30. Would you rather write your own autobiography or have a stranger turn your life story into a movie?
31. Would you rather travel 100 years into the past or 100 years into the future?
32. Would you rather give up caffeine or alcohol forever?
33. Would you rather eat only salty food the rest of your life, or only sweet food?
34. Would you rather be able to speak every language in the world or talk to animals?           

Would You Rather Questions about Relationships

35. Would you rather your significant other always be late or always be early?
36. Would you rather date someone who wants to bar-hop with you, or cafe-hop with you?
37. Would you rather be with someone who only talks to you over text, or only calls you?
38. Would you rather get matching onesies, or matching piercings?
39. Would you rather receive a thoughtful gift or an expensive one from your partner?
40. Would you rather splurge on a couple’s vacation to tropical Cancun or historical Italy?
41. Would you rather be only kissed or only hugged by your partner?
42. Would you rather have a partner who never leaves you alone, or one who’s always working and doesn’t have much time for you?
43. Would you rather have joint savings for travel, or joint savings for an emergency?
44. Would you rather live together in a luxury apartment in the city, or a rustic cabin in the woods?
45. Would you rather your partner make a ton of money and hate their job, or make little money and love what they do?
46. Would you rather have a super clingy partner or an emotionally distant one?
47. Would you rather stay up all night to resolve an argument, or go to bed and resolve the argument in the morning?
48. Would you rather only get good morning texts or goodnight texts?
49. Would you rather your partner be a hardworking side hustler with big dreams, or a lazy trust fund baby who fulfills your every financial need?
50. Would you rather your friends hate your partner, or your parents hate your partner?
51. Would you rather work out at the gym or go for a long bike ride with your partner?
52. Would you rather your partner hates all pets or owns 15 pets?
53. Would you rather discover every dirty secret your partner is keeping, or remain blissfully unaware?
54. Would you rather date someone who is direct but often harsh, or meek who rarely speaks their mind?
55. Would you rather be with someone adventurous and unreliable, or stable and boring?
56. Would you rather work in the same office as your partner, or only get to see them on weekends?
57. Would you rather have an awkward first date with someone who’s genuine, or a picture-perfect first date with someone who’s insincere?
58. Would you rather be with someone who is exactly like you or someone completely opposite of you?
59. Would you rather spare your partner’s feelings with a white lie, or tell the blunt truth?
60. Would you rather host a big Thanksgiving party with your partner or have an intimate Thanksgiving meal alone together?
61. Would you rather take a long cross-country road trip with your partner, or a long flight to Thailand?
62. Would you rather have a partner who only wears black or only wears bright, bold colors?
63. Would you rather have an extroverted partner or an introverted partner?
64. Would you rather be with someone 10 years older than you or 10 years younger than you?
65. Would you rather your partner enjoy taking tons of selfies, or tons of photos of you?
66. Would you rather have a partner who is an atheist or devoutly religious?
67. Would you rather bake a delicious dessert or cook up an extravagant meal with your partner?
68. Would you rather go jet skiing or snowmobiling together?
69. Would you rather have a partner with a possibly life-threatening job or a totally time-consuming job?
70. Would you rather your partner had a home that smells really bad or is brimming with clutter?
71. Would you rather be with a narcissist or someone with low self-esteem?
72. Would you rather be with someone who’s antisocial, or who tries to befriend everyone they meet?
73. Would you rather be failures together, or go your separate ways and become really successful?
74. Would you rather meet your partner’s parents first or have your partner meet your parents first?
75. Would you rather be with someone who wakes up extremely early or stays up really late at night?
76. Would you rather have a slightly messy, laidback partner or a squeaky clean, uptight partner?
77. Would you rather your partner get jealous frequently, or not care at all?
78. Would you rather have a partner mostly concerned about achieving their goals, or mostly concerned about supporting you with your goals?

Deep Would You Rather Questions About Life

1. Would you rather have a blissful marriage for 5 years then die, or a terrible marriage for 50 years then die?
2. Would you rather be totally alone or in a mediocre relationship for the rest of your life?
3. Would you rather know the exact day you’re going to die, or know the exact day your partner will die?
4. Would you rather have more time, or more money?
5. Would you rather meet your soulmate in high school or at age 30?
6. Would you rather never feel emotional pain or physical pain?
7. Would you rather have a high salary and a lot of debt, or a low salary and no debt?
8. Would you rather have no emotions, or feel every little thing too deeply?
9. Would you rather not be able to have any kids, or be required to have 5?
10. Would you rather be a talented writer or a talented public speaker?
11. Would you rather love your partner more than they love you, or your partner love you more than you love them?
12. Would you rather pass away before your partner or after your partner?
13. Would you rather single-handedly find the cure for cancer or stop global warming?
14. Would you rather get to forget your worst memory, or get to remember your best memory?
15. Would you rather live together on the East Coast or West Coast of the US?
16. Would you rather go on a brewery and beer tasting tour, or a vineyard and wine tasting tour?
17. Would you rather lose the ability to see, or the ability to walk?
18. Would you rather spend $20,000 on a year of traveling the world, or $20,000 on a new car?
19. Would you rather get $3 million now, or $300k every year for the next 10 years?
20. Would you rather never eat healthy food again, or never exercise again?
21. Would you rather die young with regrets or die very old with many regrets?
22. Would you rather be born knowing the meaning of life, or enjoy a lifelong journey of discovering it?
23. Would you rather be able to change the past or change the future?
24. Would you rather be 7 years old forever, or 75 years years old forever?
25. Would you rather have a huge salary increase or live in the location of your dreams?
26. Would you rather be the leader or a wallflower?
27. Would you rather be an alcoholic or addicted to cigarettes?
28. Would you rather have 2 best friends or 20 pretty good friends?
29. Would you rather be homeless for 5 years, or be the cause of your sibling becoming homeless?
30. Would you rather drop a nuclear bomb on an entire country or lose your only child?
31. Would you rather not be able to tell a lie, or not be able to tell the truth?

Flirty Would You Rather Questions

110. Would you rather be submissive or dominating?
111. Would you rather receive a sexy message, or a love note?
112. Would you rather only have sex in a bed for the rest of your life or never be able to have sex in a bed again?
113. Would you rather have morning sex or late-night sex?
114. Would you rather be the big spoon or the little spoon?
115. Would you rather make out with your partner in a comfy bed or a parked car with a view?
116. Would you rather have a great sex life but not get along well, or get along great but rarely have sex?
117. Would you rather receive cheek kisses or forehead kisses?
118. Would you rather slow dance to a romantic song or grind in a disco club with your partner?
119. Would you rather have sex in the car or in the shower?
120. Would you rather give or receive?
121. Would you rather have your parents walk in on you or your kids walk in on you?
122. Would you rather be on the top or bottom?
123. Would you rather get a sensual shoulder rub or foot rub from your partner?
124. Would you rather start with plenty of foreplay, or dive right into the main course?
125. Would you rather make out with your ex’s new partner or your new partner’s ex?

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