In the quest for love, we often have a mental checklist of qualities we desire in a partner. However, could it be that these very qualities are hindering our chances of finding true and lasting love? Let’s delve into the three secret qualities many women seek in a...
Breakups make us feel lonely, kill our motivation, and leave us scared we’ll never find life beyond this pain. But if you’re in a rut now, it doesn’t mean this is the end. If you feel stuck in heartbreak—or just need some encouragement to pick yourself up—don’t...
Dating can feel like an exhausting job, and we all know there are plenty of fish in the sea. But how can we separate the good ones from the bad? Communication is key, but what if the conversation is full of red flags? Knowing what to look out...
Estimated reading time: 11 minutes
Dear Dr. NerdLove,
Recently, I wanted to introduce myself to a woman who goes to the same coffee shop as me. We typically go there at the same time every Saturday morning and sit fairly close to each other on the comfy couches. I...
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Dear Dr. NerdLove,
A few months ago, I (f/34) went through a tumultuous breakup. It was one of those heart-wrenching, soul-crushing ones that leave you questioning a lot about yourself and relationships in general. The relationship itself was definitely in a death spiral before...
Stephen Hussey
There are a few lucky souls who get through life without enduring the agony of heartbreak.
Heartbreak is so bruising that it has been shown scientifically to resemble some of the worst physical pain we’ll ever face.
When you lose someone you love, your mind has to come to...
There is no denying that OnlyFans has become a go-to platform for many content creators due to its ease of posting content and earning potential. It boasts a vast variety of content, effective tools, and lucrative metrics, so it's no surprise that it has become a must-have for...
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Hi Doctor.
After reading many of your posts and many conversations with friends, I’m starting to think that dating is just too difficult for all people, for a very different set of reasons for each person. It seems like people of all genders have...
Estimated reading time: 14 minutes
Dear Dr. NerdLove:
When I started college, I started trying to put myself out there to try to meet, date, and hookup with women. I had the attitude of “just be yourself and the right women would come along” and it just never did....
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Hey Dr. NerdLove,
So, the story goes like this: a few years ago, after a pretty tough breakup, I met “Jenna” (name changed for privacy reasons)through mutual friends. From the get-go, there was something about Jenna that drew me in. She had this infectious...
